But when these same people are questioned about if they would leave their spouse because of financial issues I have never met any who would; they just think others would. Yes, they definitely had marriage issues, but the actual issues were never at the core of their problems.
There are only a few matters of marriage, I know why the divorce should be considered:
1. Your spouse is physically abusive
2. Your spouse refuses to be a problem with drugs or alcohol, which is dangerous to correct.
3. Your spouse is a dangerous criminal
4. Your spouse is in prison for a long period of time
5. You have not seen or heard from your spouse because they left you
There are probably other marriage issues that would make it OK to consider divorce, but none others come to mind right now. I am opposed to divorce because it is almost completely unnecessary.
I found that marriage is completely misunderstood, which is why the divorce rate is so staggeringly high. I discovered that when people understood these three killers and how they come about, marriage is safe. Notwithstanding serious mental deficiencies like what you would find in drug addicts or other self-abusers, every marriage can be joyous and every family can be safe.
I tell you that ignorance is not bliss when it comes to being married. I also tell you that when you know how to express intimacy in the safety of a marital life you will know what bliss means. You can learn to be drunk with love.

You are absolutely right that these are major issue that goes finally for divorce but I think that divorce is not a final solution because it affects badly your child because they want to live with family while husband and wife decides to live separately.
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Samuel James: I'm 100% totally agreed with you :)
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